How to Choose the Right Packer: Pack, Play, STP, and Size Explained

Choosing a packer is a personal decision that depends on how you plan to use it. Whether you're new to packing or looking to upgrade, understanding the differences between pack, play, and STP (stand-to-pee) options will help you find the right fit for your body and lifestyle.

In this guide, we'll break down the key factors to consider—size, material, function, and comfort—so you can make an informed choice. We'll also highlight some popular options from New York Toy Collective to get you started.

Understand the Three Main Types: Pack, Play, and STP

Packers are designed for everyday wear to create a natural bulge under clothing. They are typically soft, flexible, and comfortable for all-day use. Play packers, also known as pack and play packers, are firmer and can be used for sexual activity. STP packers allow you to urinate standing up, often with a funnel or channel built in.

Some packers combine functions. For example, the Shilo | The Original Pack and Play is a versatile option that works for both daily packing and partner play. If you need an STP function, look for a packer with a dedicated channel and practice at home before using it in public.

• Pack-only: softest, most comfortable for daily wear.
• Pack and play: firmer, dual-purpose, ideal for those who want one product for multiple uses.
• STP: includes a funnel or channel for standing urination; practice is essential.

Consider Size and Shape for Your Body and Lifestyle

Packer sizes range from small to large, and the right choice depends on your body type, clothing style, and comfort. A smaller packer is easier to conceal and more comfortable for everyday wear, while a larger one may feel more affirming for some. Consider the length and girth, as well as the position of the shaft—some packers angle upward or downward to sit naturally against the body.

Think about your typical activities. If you're active or wear fitted clothing, a smaller, softer packer may be more practical. For those who prefer a more substantial feel, a larger packer might be better. Always check the product dimensions and compare them to your preferences.

• Measure your current packer or use a ruler to visualize the size.
• Consider clothing: tighter pants may require a smaller packer.
• Try different angles and positions to find what feels most natural.

Material Matters: Silicone vs. Other Materials

Silicone is the gold standard for packers because it's body-safe, non-porous, and easy to clean. It also feels realistic and maintains its shape over time. New York Toy Collective uses 100% platinum-cured silicone in products like the Pierre Packer, Hand-Painted Edition - uncut, uncircumcised 100% silicone, which offers a lifelike texture and durability.

Other materials like TPE or rubber may be softer and cheaper, but they are porous and can harbor bacteria. For hygiene and longevity, silicone is the best investment. Always check the material composition before purchasing, and avoid materials that aren't explicitly body-safe.

• Look for '100% silicone' or 'platinum-cured silicone' for safety.
• Avoid porous materials if you plan to use the packer for play.
• Silicone is easy to clean with soap and water or a toy cleaner.

Pack and Play: When You Want One Product for Both

Pack and play packers offer versatility, but they come with trade-offs. They need to be firm enough for penetration, yet soft enough for comfortable daily wear. Some models, like the Shilo | The Original Pack and Play, strike a balance by using different silicone densities in different areas—softer for the shaft, firmer for the base.

If you're considering a pack and play, think about how often you'll use it for each purpose. If you pack daily and play occasionally, a softer packer might be better. If play is a priority, prioritize firmness. Remember that pack and play packers often require a harness for secure use during play.

• Check if the packer is compatible with a harness.
• Consider the firmness: too soft for play, too hard for comfort.
• Read reviews to see how others balance daily wear and play.

STP Packers: Functionality and Practice

STP packers allow you to urinate standing up, which can be a game-changer for many. However, they require practice to use without spills. The key is to position the funnel correctly against your body and control the flow. Some STP packers are also packable, but they may be firmer or have a different shape than a dedicated packer.

When choosing an STP packer, look for a design that fits your anatomy. Some have a wider funnel for easier positioning, while others are more streamlined. Practice at home in the shower or over a toilet before using it in public. The Trans Masc Pump 2.0 is a different product, but it shows the range of trans-specific gear available—STP packers are another tool in that category.

• Practice with water first to build confidence.
• Choose a funnel shape that matches your body.
• Carry a small towel or wipes for emergencies.

Accessories and Add-Ons to Enhance Your Experience

Once you've chosen your packer, consider accessories that improve comfort and functionality. Harnesses are essential for secure play, and the Beginner Strap-on Harness Kit Vegan with silicone dil included is a great starting point for those new to strap-on play. For packing, some people prefer a packing pouch or underwear with a built-in pocket.

If you're interested in pumping, the Trans Masc Pump Deluxe + Jack Stroker combines pumping with a stroker for a different kind of play. Remember that accessories like harnesses and pouches should be chosen based on your packer's size and shape to ensure a secure fit.

• Use a harness for play; check compatibility with your packer.
• Packing underwear can keep your packer in place all day.
• Explore add-ons like strokers or pump kits for more options.

Choosing the right packer is about understanding your needs and preferences. Whether you prioritize daily comfort, play versatility, or STP functionality, there's a packer out there for you. Take your time, consider the factors we've discussed, and don't be afraid to try different options. The right packer can boost your confidence and comfort—so start exploring today.